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How do I turn in my co-worker?

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I do not like my co-worker. This is something that is not a secret. We work in the same area and have to co-exist. But our working relationship is only that. We talk when we have to about work and are pleasant but for the most part I do not respect her work ethic or her morals.  She is generally unliked by a number of people at work. And I usually like people so i know it is not just me.


I have come to believe that she is falifying her work time. The proof of this can be unrepudiated and will be indefensable.  When I speak to the human resources person, I do not want to appear that I am out to get her, and creating this drama so that she will be fired. I just think she is cheating the company and with all the great people out there who are unemployed, we could do better.


What do I say?

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Can you do it annonymously?

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NO. There is no way to do this annonymously.  She is one of the only employees who is allowed a flex schedule. We found out that she is clocking in early in the morning when no one else is there, then she is going for a run, coming back, drying off and changing and then starting to actually "work" just before the rest of us get there.  Another co worker was coming in early and saw her.  Then this AM same thing, she clocked in at 7:20 and when I got into the office at 8:30 her computer was still turned off, and the office was locked and dark. They should be able to pull a log of the times when whe logged onto the network each day, and the times she clocked in each day. So that can't be refuted. But it is only she and I in our office, so there is no way she won't know it is me.  I fully expect that this type of infraction should result in her termination. But it may not.  She has a way of blaming everyone else for her troubles so somehow she will make this my fault.


I am planning to go to work early tomorrow to see what I see, My boss is on vacation until next week so I haven't had a chance to say anything yet.


I just want to come across as someone who cares about the company and sees something that is wrong, not as someone who is trying to get someone else in trouble. WHat she is doing is wrong. I just don't want to hurt my own reputation during this process.

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This is really tough.  Decisions related to productivity should probably be handled by her supervisor.  Unless she reports to you, you will most likely look petty in turning her in, especially in light of your admission of not liking her.  Most companies have a disciplinary process that involves awareness, attempts at correction and formal write-ups before a termination takes place.  Not sure if this is true with your company.  You may want to consider talking to your supervisor or her supervisor before you register a formal complaint with HR.  An official HR complaint generates several processes, including the accused right to face her accuser.  Also, not sure of the laws in your state, but here, if she was terminated, she would be allowed to file for unemployment and then the company would have to prove officially that she was terminated for cause - which would bring you, HR. the supervisors and her into a formal hearing at the Employment Commission and/or Labor Board.  Regardless of how you proceed, make sure your work is exemplary and your attitude absolutely professional so that she cannot come back with complaints against you.  Good luck.  And remember, only you have control over your attitude and how you respond/react to circumstances, so choose to make each day a good one.

 

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I came to work early this morning and observed the same thing my co-worker saw.  My boss is on vacation doing work on his house and we have a deadline next week. So I called him. I said that this had been observed.  That other co-worker is going to speak to her boss who is the HR manager.  So I told my boss that and said that I felt that as soon as I knew something I should share it with him. And I didn't want him to come into the office after several days off thinking that he was going to get all this work done only to have to deal with this situation. I said I didn't want to ruin his vacation but that he would need time to think the situation over.  It would have made him angry if he had come in and been confronted by the other co-worker and then he learned that I had known all the time and had not alerted him.  At this point I am trying to step out of it.  If necessary I will be able to attest to what I saw this morning with my own eyes, that she did not sit down to work until 8:30 and was in her work out geer returning from a walk (by her admission) at 8:15.  I know that she had clocked into work at 7:13.


Thank you for your good advice. I do not want to leave anyone with any reason to accuse me or to find that my work is lacking.  I am salary and she is hourly, so the clocking in thing doesn't apply to me. And while I am not her supervisor I am her superior in the department.


I will let you know what happens.

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Sounds like you're handling it in the most professional way possible.  Good luck. 

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Keep us posted. I would report it to her immediate supervisor also.

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 I feel for you and your situation.  Watch out that it doesn't backfire on you.  I called myself alerting the upper management at the lead office about the outrageously unprofessional antics of the branch manager and staff of the satellite office I worked in.  I was the only one who was above reproach so when I was terminated it was for a reason that was not my fault (they simply eliminated the position I occupied).  They claim to have a no retaliation policy but that was on paper only.  Be careful telling on others it could result in your termination instead of theirs.  You'll never know why she's doing what she's doing, she may have their permission and you don't know it or maybe something is going on in her personal life that is forcing her to do this and she's trying not to let it interfere with her work.  I wish you all the best.


I know that if I ever see anything inappropriate happening at my next corporate office job, I will look the other way like everyone else is and do my best to keep myself out of it and let the management find out or wait for the person to quit or straighten up.  I've learned my lesson about trying to make things right in an atmosphere where everyone is aware (or not) of what's going on and not doing anything about it.  I've been out of work now for two years as a direct result of trying to do what I believed was in the best interest of the company, clients and other staff who were complaining too.

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Rate This | Posted 4 months ago

 

Do you have a chain of command that you can tell first?

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We are a very small quasi-gov't agency. My dept has only me, my boss and two other people.  In my bosses absence I am in charge. So in that respect I am her superior in this department.  The other co-worker from another department was the first to see her out excercising and she told me she was going to go to the HR manager.  At that point I knew I had to tell my boss and that I should. We get along very well and we respect each other. There is nothing in my own work that would make me nervous. My position is pretty central and I do a pretty good job.


My boss and the HR manager asked each of the three people who saw her to write a statement of what we saw. i kept mine very brief and only said when I arrived to work, what the office was like and when she came in and how she was dressed.


She was then pulled into a meeting with our boss and the HR manager. They asked for an explaination. She said i was mistaken, and the other co-worker was mistaken. She said she was there and working from the time we clocked in. She said we were out to get her. 


They know that she is lying and that she was falsifying her time records. However, they are afraid of being sued so they have written her up. They have taken away her priviledge of flex time. She must now work regular office hours like everyone else.


We share a conference room that has been turned into an office for three (but there are only the two of us in here). And I can say it has been very very quiet since Friday.  She has said nothing to me and I have said nothing to her unless it is work related.  I would love to be challenged by her for what I did. It would give me a chance to stand up for myself.  Instead she has spreak her own version of the story around to her friends in the office.  Most of the people here realize what she is doing and what she has done and they feel bad for me that I still have to share this work space with her.  My boss has said that if the environment down here gets really bad he will move her. but I don't want to make things any more difficult.  I just wish the truth would be known by everyone so that I would not be looked at as the bad guy.


But anyway I have a ton of work piled up because this situation has taken a lot of attention. My boss has confided in me through out and I think he made a mistake but it was his decision.  Thank you for all the feedback and support on the board.

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Rate This | Posted 2 months ago

 

It may not be that you boss made a bad decision, but rather he is setting up a series of documented problems before he takes further steps.  Firing someone on a first infraction can lead to the employer having to pay unemployment for that person.  Most companies will want a clearcut show of progressive discipline before they fire someone, especially in any agency that is government related.  That way, even if the person files some kind of complaint, they have clear documentation of the steps they've taken.

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Rate This | Posted 20 days ago

 

Firing someone without first giving written documented warnings can also lead to a lawsuit!